Hi Piper...I had two dics blow in my neck a few years back. I lost the ability to use my right arm and hand. I had an MRI and the neurosurgeon told me that surgery was really my only option if I wanted to function. It was really quite scary. But, the surgery was a success, and with therapy I have gained back the use of my right arm and hand with some nerve damage, but not enough to keep me from functioning. Let us know how your doctor appointment goes. I feel for you with small children. I know it must be really hard for you. There is hope.....