I don't want the aide here when we eat it's a deeply rooted thing not to have someone not eating in your house sitting there in your house when your family is eating. To us this is family time and not a time we can have intruders coming in. I just can't understand why they feel it's so necesary, they have SEEN him eating after school this is no different only he won't hit when they are here. THey don't seem to understand THAT concept either, he won't act up too badly while they are here, PERIOD, that is why it isn't happening when the aide is here. I just want to give up.