I post so much, thought , "I'm trying to reduce my posts, etc etc. i can't post again." but why ignore your message, it is really appreciated because you, too, have been here since??? i am thinking for almost the whole ten years?
i hope i'm not wrong in detecting the humor in confessing your imagined fear of prison...lol. Those that know you, will agree I think that you don't look much like a person who would commit a crime. [Ann is a petite, blonde, retired teacher with a handsome husband who is funny and a local politician??? or was at one time?]
if you can blend in normal do it. the whole physical, social isolation aspect is ignored in these conversations with no body language.
the joke was all bob's fault.
nice to hear from you,
paula