I am sorry you both feel that way. I have never gotten a bad feeling on this site. There are times I posted a question and no one has (or very few have) responded. That only means I asked something where people have no opinion or experience.

Myself, I will not write unless I feel I have something to add that I think is meaningful.

Of course, we all need to do what we think is right for us. I wish the best to you.

Mike