Sometimes one must walk away from "things" they treasure, and people that are toxic.
I understand your pain,Pete. It isn't fair what happened to you.
I am concerned with your emotional state.
You have a home,now. It is not the one you built RSD ready..but it is a home for you. It will take time to ease all the anxiety/anger you feel concerning ALL the injustice that has come your way.
It starts with you deciding to let the toxic go. Do you see a psychologist for depression/anxiety...counseling?
You have no worries for lack of friends in your life. I am one, and you have so many more on NT.
Please know that I am on your side and appreciate your life experience that you have shared with me.