Thanks Mari, Pam, Bizi, Koala, and the others

No honestly it wasn't easier than I thought it would be. He is still reeling
from the amounts. But I honestly knew he would be. Yesterday it went
as far as. When a call came in for my debit card to have some charges
confirmed he was mad I wasn't wanting him and the dogs to be in
the room.

Even he doesn't know how to stay quiet so I can hear. Its really hard to
explain. But he had taken the call, and I was returning, and he had said.
It was a lafayette bank. SO I knew it had to be my debit card.

So this I told him, but he wasn't listening. Had a fight kind of. So had
even more talk about how it was making me feel. To keep having this
come up. Anyway its stopping I think. Even told him about the two
that are just there today. One is my emergency one, which he decided
I can keep.

Real relief of my back just for a few months, I need one till I have enough
money to put on debit card each time I stay in a motel for business.
I get reimbursed after stay. So its not like I will have any charges
if I pay it off right away. Which within two or three months that can
happen now.

The other one I'm not sure where it came from, but it will be gone within
5 months. Its got 1,000 on it. So its going to take me a little while.

But he is okay with those two. So we are okay. And not fighting now.

I'm finally seeing the light. It was necessary because before very long
its very much possible he will get laid off. And he has lots to do so
its his thoughts laid off for a few months is good.

Not with the big credit cards though.

Donna