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Originally Posted by honeybear
Sometimes I think it is not me that is the problem, he needs to get help and stop tearing me apart because he is so miserable.
I can't take it. I can't do it one more day.......
honey needs hugs......
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honeybear
You're absolutely right, honeybear, it's NOT you. You can't take responsibility for his bad behavior.
I am so sorry these circumstances have taken over your life. The bad economy is tearing apart more than just bank balances.......it's affecting lives and relationships.
Do you think he'd be willing to go to counseling? Either with you or alone?
I just wanted you to know that I'm praying for you. I hope you don't feel so alone in all of this. I know some days it seems hopeless but I try to remember this saying that's helped me through some tough times.....
When God leads you to the edge of the cliff trust Him fully and let go. Only 1 of 2 things will happen. He'll either catch you when you fall or He'll teach you how to fly!