Since you are both home now- maybe when he is in a decent mood talk about sharing chores, it's only fair.

Does he have any sort of hobby?
There are hobbies that don't cost much, bird watching , reading , making things from recycled materials.

I think that is important for everyone, to have an outlet besides work, esp when work is not happening for whatever reason.


You don't have to accept his bad attitude , if he won't talk & work on fixing this as a partner in life with you, maybe you will have to give an ultimatum??
That doesn't work unless you back up what you say though.. or not very often.
or even separate for awhile if necessary so he might see the error in his treatment to you.


He is the one that is treating you badly, remember the marriage vows?
He has forgotten them.
I don't know how to get someone to see they are being mean & rude to ones they are supposed to love.....



my bro and his wife separated for a few months and now are working to make it together again.