Can I be dumb and ask a question about modern dating?

In the old days the gals mostly waited until the guy asked for a date or at least talked about doing something together , as in one on one..
Girls would act interested but still rarely made any first moves...

Is that not how it happens anymore?

does anyone do those kind of dates anymore?
- like go out to a movie, dinner, stuff like that?


I'm sorry it didn't work out with him, but better to find out early on before getting too involved.