I haven't been on a date in over 15 years so please forgive me if this comes across as harsh... for that is not my intention.

I have read all of the post's regarding Bobby.... I was wondering if maybe you were possibly coming on a bit strong and maybe that freaked Bobby out a bit.... Maybe he likes you as a friend and nothing more....

Also... Maybe you were seeing or hoping to see things that really weren't there...

Please don't give up on going to the locations you like to go... whether Bobby is there or not... don't give him or this other person the satisfaction of seeing you upset... or the satisfaction of running you off.

I am sorry you are hurting...

Abbie