If it was me I would want to know. Bobby has told me that he has cancer already. It doesn't matter to me. I can't speak for the ones with cancer but i would want to know.

I was so upset about my computer's mouse acting up bad and a friend not returning my mouse that works that I called Bobby tonight and left a message. I told him that I was calling to check up on him since he didn't go to the hangout today and was wondering if he was not feeling well. I went on to tell him if he needs anything or needs me to let me know cause he really doesn't live that far from me. I didn't give any indication that I was calling as anything but a friend. I hadn't called in awhile so I don't feel like I've crowded him.

barbara