nikko, i am so sorry this all happening to you.

what is happening in the courts is very typical. his attorney doesn't want there to be any trace of a bruise on you. they want you to look fit and healthy when in court. take as many pictures daily as you can. make sure the pictures are dated.

keep track of every penny you spend. if he does get convicted, there are victims funds to help reimburrse you. the money comes from whatever job he is given in prison. ( yes they do work and are paid a wage to go into their victims funds)

good luck sweety.