It must be awful being part of lilli's life like that and then they up sticks and move.

She wont forget you and hopefully she can come and stay with you during the holidays. When your sister sees the cost of childcare, she will realise you will be doing her a favour!

How about webcams so that you can see her when you talk to her? Maybe buy one as a leaving present for lilli?

I dont know what else to say, but my heart goes out to you.

Love rach xx