Hi TOSMommy and welcome to NeuroTalk! You've sure got your hands full with a 2 yr old, 4 yr old and soon to be new baby! Have you discussed with your doctor how your recovery will be affected by your TOS?
I've posted the link to our TOS forum for you in case you haven't visited there yet. You can connect and correspond with others who have the same condition. You'll find lots of caring and supportive people here at NT. Again, welcome to NT!
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum24.html