My Dear....MandaC....

Where do i begin.............................??

i dont know your age...and foirgve me if i am being presupmtuious... i am guessing under 20?


your e-mail to your sister was..balancend..well thought... and porportionate [though you obviously held back]

you are a wonderful young woman..MandaC......

IM the youngest of nine children...sometimes i hurt [quite often] other times i dont... yet i know we have to do this life indepedently...as i know ....that no one else will do this for us [true martyrs]

Being honest with your sister is the way forward[holding back....never works] but dont waste your life awaiting a positive response, as the chances are you will never hear...what you want to hear.........

please dont now, ............ or ever think my tone is patronising.....your youthfulness, coupled with your imidiate familys resistance to medical explanation...realy conerns me..
many adults with more years on the clock...dismiss crisis...when its arrround..or in our FACE.].....



We all need. Love../.consideration./ hope .[sadly it doesnt often come from those, we completely know