Hey Doydie, I understand the rant.

What a bummer, to still have that darn old pain and then a pain in the neck relative, trying their best to ruin your Christmas Celebration....sheesh!!
Well you just make up your mind right now, to have a marvelous time with your Family. And buy yourself a nice gift.... something you've wanted for a long time, and wrap it up and put it under the tree, for yourself.
Have a Wonderful time, Doydie, and Merry Christmas on Saturday.
Love and Hugs,