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Originally Posted by annie
imagine how we are going to feel if it turns out that the reason he is not communicating is because he is in the hospital learning firsthand what we already know about having brain problems.
imagine how we are going to feel if the problem is that someone close to him is very ill and he is spending all his time taking care of them.
imagine how we are going to feel if we discover that the reason he has abandoned us is that something bad has happened to him.
maybe we should stop criticizing and blaming him and start praying for him.
maybe we should think about his needs for a change instead of demanding that he should take care of ours.
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Look, do you really imagine that any of these things could be true and he doesn't know anyone to make a post for him?
I was thinking, maybe I should get a break from having to feed my goldfish. I've had to think about their needs for so long. I think it's time they gave me a break. I want them to think about MY needs.
Is that reasonable?