I understand, it's darn difficult to manage BP and the stress from an insensitive spouse. Mine is not as bad as yours in some aspects, but he's on this kick thinking I should get off ALL meds and that's just NOT going to happen.
I'm glad you can post with us and get some support, it sounds like you need some.
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