Awww I am so sorry. I had a partial hystorectomy, like Joan, at 23. I just had too many problems. I am so thankful I do not have to deal with that along with everything else. I am so sorry about your niece. I really hope you are able to spend as much time with her as possible. I love my nieces and I used to watch then before I started getting really sick so I would be really upset too. Just try not to spend too much timing thinking about it. The emotional stress I think really does a number on us. Add the heat to everything else you got going on, I don't know how you are handling it all. I hope something evens out soon. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Big Hugs

PS I feel a tiny bit better today.We will see how long that lasts.