Hi Randi. Welcome to NeuroTalk. I'm so sorry you and your hubby are having these issues. I hope the doctors can uncover what the problem is and get him some relief. I know it must be frustrating for the both of you.
I'm sorry I have no words of wisdom....hopefully someone will come along shortly and be able to relate to what he's experiencing. In the meantime, I wish you both the best and hope tomorrow is a better day.