How long has your brother been gone? Give yourself some time. if you want to blane somebody, blame the aid or nurse, or the DR. should have left orders not to let him lay. Your not a Dr and it it your fault. There were a lot of people looking after him, not just you. I tried to get my husband to quit smoking, then I tried to get him to go to the Dr sooner, but he wouldn't do it. So in our case he passed out and was sent to the hospital. That's how I found out he had cancer.

I am not taking the blame tho. I did my best, and I know you did to. maybe its to soon for you yet. But try not to blame yourself! He is with God and in a better place, where there is no suffering anymore.
{{{{{Gentle Hugs}}}}}}}
Billie