Now this is just my opionion so please do what is in your heart. I have seen so many of the same specialists. It is very frustrating and often when one is doing nothing I am in the same situation as you are. I think there is a difference between no bed side manner and really doing nothing or brushing you off. Now for me you can have no bed side manner as long as you order tests,offer relief or suggestions. Now this doc seems like she is doing nothing positive so though I know very frustrating I think you should start researching more because as we know neuros can have very long wait lists. If you decide to stay I think you need to address your issues with the neuro. I did with one of mine though she did not change at least I tried. Hang in there