I am just so thrilled to know that I dont sit and wait alone. its horrible to know that the poopies are right there!!! its right there! cant push it out. Then spend the next 2 or 3 days obsessing about it, and loading up on prunes, or fiber one or other such stuff, and get hucked into the other lane of traffic. As a nurse (yes, its gonna be gross) when I get desperate, I will lube up a finger with prep H, and reach in and wiggle it out with my finger. (make sure to cut your nails!) its right there!!! I try not to resort to this measure, but desperate times call for desperate measures. I would prefer to feel the urge, walk to the potty, sit down, and wait a second, then...a nice C or S shaped deposit. not this dump truck full of rocks.
All of you have made me feel so much better about this dysfunction. I really had no idea how not alone I really am.

fer all.