I've been married for about 2 years. I was only Dx w/MS about a year ago. My husband had a very hard time dealing with the diagnosis- and still has.

He just won't initiate sex anymore, and will say he's too tired if I try. On the weekends, I usually don't bother because he's too drunk. We do have sex, but it's almost biweekly now, if I'm lucky. Lately, it's been more like once a month. I'm handicapped, but I'm still hot!

I was doing a little investigational reporting earlier, and found that he has a pretty healthy porn habit raging on his computer and iphone.
So, I erased all his video clips and bookmarks.

I guess when he wakes up I'll see exactly how committed he is to his porn... I'm certainly not going to mention it.

I'm sure that he can download his "clips" and find his favorite sites again, but that's not the point. I haven't been working full time since September, or at all since February. We're in danger of foreclosure, but he's unwilling to drop unlimited data exchange from our wireless bill because of "GPS." So, our wireless bill is about $150 a month!!!

I'm inclined to just slap him around, but I know that I'm not physically capable and that it's unrealistic.

I'll let y'all know how this plays out.