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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Salem, VA
Posts: 2,195
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Magnate
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Salem, VA
Posts: 2,195
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Wow OhKay, you are going through so much right now. I agree with all of the above advice.
My husband and I had only been married a few years when I began having problems and was diagnosed with MS. I gave him the option of leaving because we had no idea how bad I might get and how much caretaking would be required in the future. He said something like, "no way I'm leaving you". We've been married for 20 years, and now there is a lot of caretaking involved.
I'm fortunate in that regard.
I could say that maybe your husband just needs some time to deal with your disease. However, I'm not going to say that.
I will say that he needs to grow up and talk things through with you.
 Hugs to you, OhKay.
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