So glad to hear your fathers surgery went well, Nancy! I hope he makes a full recovery real soon and am keeping him in my thoughts and prayers!!
I'm so sorry to hear about everything you are going through right now!

I can't imagine how hard it must be for you to take care of your dad AND yourself - you're amazing!
As the others said, please take it easy and don't overdo it - I know, easier said than done! You MUST take care of yourself! The last thing you want is to end up in a real bad flare and i'm sure your dad will feel the same way also!
I hope your doctors appt goes well and please keep us posted when you can!
Yourself and your dad are in my thoughts and prayers and sending many pain-free

's your way!