Rossy, although some of your symptoms sound stress related, taken as a whole, it seems to me that more is going on. Have you consulted a neurologist? Consider what meds you are on. Consider whether you might have a spinal condition, such as spinal stenosis, a narrowing of the spine, which might not necessarily have symptoms other than the incontinence that you mention. I think that current or recent medications might offer some explanation, IF there are any. Blessings on your journey in making it through the medical system. Believe it or not, there are those docs who honestly care about pursuing an accurate diagnosis. billie