Hey Nikko....

first.... ((((( huggs )))))

sorry this is happening... but i really need to second Mari's post here...

CALL that Parole Officer YOURSELF. Obey Police Instructions.

it doesn't matter if the PO will get the info anyway, through bureaucratic channels, if the POLICE told you to call, DO IT. There may be good reason for you and the parole officer to speak directly. Even if it's just a protocol thing, what's to lose. Keep your case clean.

AND yes... tell him NOTHING. You know, even if he talks to you, silence is an acceptable answer. Don't give him the time of day.

i wonder if your DV counselor knows if/how if it can be put on his file that if he is arrested in that he should be urine tested... due to the restrictions on his probation order.

I WANT YOU TO BE SAFE. Please take care.

Last but not least, I want you to eat SOMETHING even if you don't have an appetite. I bet you have a microwave and a potato. Nuke a potato and eat it. Just plain. eat as much of it as you can, slowly is better. Potato soothes the stomach and is something readily digestible to start with... you need to bring your appetite back. Another thing is grits, but maybe a baked potato is easier. Try it? Please??

((( hugs )))

~ waves ~