Hey, BW, Gosh that all sounds so familiar... I believe that concern and anxiety often overlap. Sounds to me like you have genuine cause for some anxiety and also concern! Doesn't sound like an either/or situation from my perspective. And as far as husbands so .... well, mine is a darling but he told me nearly three decades ago, long before we were married ... "Nancy, remember one thing: Men are all basically stupid." **** straight from the lips of a guy

Thinking of you and sending thoughts filled with peace and serenity. Bye 4 now, dear friend.