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Old 08-16-2009, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted by ali12 View Post
I guess i've learnt who my true friends are now that I have RSD and I don't think any of the kids at my old mainstream school were ever my true friends. The kids at the school centre are great and have been in touch with me all the time they knew I haven't been well but the kids from my other school, haven't been in touch. I think they just used me for what they could get as I used to take them to the movies, we went to see the Pussycat Dolls for my 11th Birthday etc. I try and ignore them the best I can but it's still really hard at times.
It *is* hard to accept and to see people react to you differently than they used to, I think we all can relate. All the ones that will no longer give you the time of day, well: good riddance. It hurts, yes, but you'll have to do without them and you know what, you can do without them. They'll only give you a hard time for not being able to keep up or do what they do. It's not there that you'll get your support, that's for sure. Stick with the people that stand by you no matter what, who aren't ashamed to be seen with you, who think you're just as good a person as someone without a disability. You deserve people like that, people who make you feel part of something rather than make you feel excluded.

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It's under a month now til I start college which is kinda scary but exciting at the same time! I know it's going to be a lot of hard work but hopefully it will be worth it !
It's going to be different than high school, I can tell you that much. It's like all the bad apples have been weeded out and it's a much more grown up atmosphere... well, it was in my case.

I hope college will be a great experience for you.
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Work related (car) accident September 21, 1995, consequences:
- chondromalacia patellae both knees
- RSD both legs (late diagnosis, almost 3 years into RSD) & spread to arms/hands as of 2008
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