(((Dottie))) Some just never change. My best friend's 40 year old daughter is a perfect example. My friend has raised her granddaughter from about the age of 6 months. Now the daughter's 2nd daughter, age 4, is in a foster home. She got caught with a surprise urine analysis, whatever you call them, and had crack in her system. Sigh.
Again, I'm so amazed at how you have stepped up to the plate. I get exhausted just having my 4-yr-old grandson for an overnighter!