Dear Stitcher,

I know where your son is coming from. At first I was too sick to know anything was wrong. Even now, after seeing all the diagnostic tests and living with all the deficits, I still have moments when I think it can't really be true.

Whether or not you can talk your son into going to his support group, you should consider joining one for TBI caregivers.

By the way, you're a great mom!