Tracy,
I agree with all here, who say time for a new, or new set of, doctors.

I also think that by you, getting on the phone, internet, doing what ever searching you need to do, to find the best in your area, then following through, (there will be rough spots) to getting appointments, and being seen, will do a Lot for your family's focus on you.
Take it upon yourself to find the proper help, and, they'll be happy for that and for you!

Unfortunately, when we seem helpless, that's the way we get treated.
So, do the most you can, and pray for help.
You'll get it when you need it!


Pete