Far too much for any one person~why can't PAIN of all kinds be spread out more to everyone? I cannot understand. "Life is not fair" is the understatement of all time.

Who takes care of you when you are that ill? Are you all alone?

Does your nephew have a shunt? Does it malfunction? Is it the kind you have to pump with your finger? Please tell him you have a lot of online friends who know you have a nephew who is having a hard time and that we are pulling for him.