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Originally Posted by Mari
Wow, Donna,
This sounds like a big change and something difficult for you.
Depression can run in families. Does he have close relatives with it?
It sounds like he might be working it out in his own way. I hope he makes it out the other side.
Regarding the house making you sick:
Do you have a newish house? One that is sealed up tight against the weather? That can be bad.
In my area of the country we worry about mold.
How about something in the house that is new like new carpeting or glue?
Here is a government web site listing common problems with buildings:
http://www.epa.gov/iaq/pubs/sbs.html
--Inadequate ventilation
--Chemical contaminants from indoor sources
--Chemical contaminants from outdoor sources
--Biological contaminants
Basically, going a way from a home for a while like you did -- is a good test that something inside the house is bothering you.
Maybe try opening windows and doors for some ventilation.
M. |
If you have central air/heat, spending $100 for an allergy filter that lasts a couple of years can be a big benefit. I'm sure you know what the major symptoms of depression are. The most diagnostic are the vegetative symptoms, i.e. sleep and appetite disturbance, either too little or too much. Then there's excessive worry, lack of interest in former activities, lack of motivation, lack of energy, anxiety, negative thinking - I could go on for awhile, but I'm sure you are aware. Do try to get some ventilation in the house if you can. I actually can't. Windows are double paned and sealed. Maybe something in your house is effecting husband, too. Or maybe if you do know the cause of his low mood, it's situational, rather than clinical, depression and can be somewhat more easily delt with most times, by working through the cause. Blessings and Best of Outcomes - billie