I'm so sorry for all of the health problems you've been dealing with for the last while...I know how it feels to be left with scary symptoms and no diagnosis...But with time, comes answers...Please know that you deserve to be in this world just as much as anyone else. It's not your fault that you are sick. I hope that your family will come around and be more supportive during your time of need.
This site has many supportive individuals going through the same feelings as you, and you can find comfort, comraderie and maybe some answers amongst us.
I've read that Hypokalemic periodic paralysis is a genetic disorder...I've also read about pancreatitis being a symptom of some genetic disorders as well...Maybe you can contact your local MDA and they can help you figure things out. You deserve answers and to be feeling better soon!
I wish you all the best!
Nicky