(((Debbie))) If I remember correctly, aren't you in your 1st year? The 1st year for many of us was one of the worst. I went through serial flares every 6 weeks give or take. I had literally no break. Things did improve for me after that and I am pretty sure Copaxone had something to do with it.
As for the neuropsych testing, yes it can be rough. I had a much better attitude going in to my 2nd one than my 1st. There are so many ways that they can help you over come cognitive issues. Taking this test will help identify areas that you need help in and by working with a speech therapist you will learn to overcome many deficits.
As for your neuro - He sounds wonderful! You are very lucky to have not only the support and help from him but your DH as well.
Hang in there, Debbie!
