Awww! Neither one. This is just a case of both ppl trying. Don't try to judge who is more right.

• You think she's wrong for being annoyed, and expressing it.
• She thinks you're wrong for calling.

Not a big issue. Let it go. (And, she should, too.)

~ Faith

P.S.: Except I didn't notice the cussing out part, at first. That was not called for.