Hi Finlady,
I'm sorry to hear that you are in that much pain, whine away, we all do.
Do you have medication for spasticity? Or just pain medications for general pain? There is a difference. Maybe discuss this with your Neuro. If you feel you are in a flare, ask him if he thinks you are.
If you are not happy with this doctor or his treatment plan you can always change. You don't have to feel like you don't have any control over your symptoms, you do.
I wish you good luck on Monday's appointment with the Neuro. I hope you get to have the pain treated correctly.
No one should be in that much pain when there are things that can be done to help.
Feel better soon.