Thank you. I'm really okay.....I just feel so bad for her. I know what she's going through and there isn't anything I (or anyone else) can do to ease it. It's just such a helpless feeling.

I want to tell her everything does get better....with time. But, I can remember hearing just that very thing and thinking I would clobber the next person who told me to "give it time". Time's her enemy right now....but it will be her friend eventually. But that's just something she has to discover for herself in her own time frame.

The expected death of someone is hard enough but the unexpected shock of losing someone like this is just brutal. It just makes me so sad that she has to go through this.