Kelly,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know you want to help and I am sure that you are by just being there for her. It must be so hard for you thinking of the loss of your husband and knowing how hard it is to get through. I just can't imagine.
I have been through such sadness since my Mom passed away suddenly on June 6th. She and Daddy were married for over 61 years. My Daddy is just so lost but is trying to find his place in the world now that Mom is gone.
Three months have passed and he knows she died peacefully in her sleep from a heart attack and is in God's hands now.
His health is so bad that each time I see him, he looks so small and fragile. We just talk about whatever comes up. It has been so hard. Almost unbearable at times but just being there is all we can do. We have to grieve together and get through it.
I am sure you know what I am talking about and you know from your loss that there is nothing that eases the pain of losing someone you love.