I have ZERO attachments to the things within my home. They can have them. I have zero attachment to jewelry, or electronics, they can all be replaced. money isnt kept in my home, and credit cards can be cancelled the moment he leaves with them. I have zero intentions of fighting over "stuff" I would however have plans on protecting me or my children, or animals. Those are off limits.
My mother is one of those that is stuck on her "stuff" its all so valueable to her, and I bet should she be confronted by a robber, she would hang on for dear life. It would upset me to see her hurt over "stuff" its all replaceable! she gives off the "I worked hard all of my life, and am not gonna let someone waltz out the door with it".
Please dont risk your life over "stuff" protection for yourself is very different than risking your life about "stuff." no "stuff" is worth your life.