Hello,
I have an affected aunt who has our family mystery neurodegenerative disorder. She is quite advanced in progression and severity, and unfortunately, one of the things that has been lost is her sense of smell. We don't have any clinical proof of this, but a walk through her house would most definitely confirm it...Anyway, she refuses any outside help whatsoever (whether it would come from another family member or from the Office of Aging/Home Help group). I'm at a loss as to how I can explain to her that even though the stench and filth may not be offensive to her, it most definitely is to those who want to help and visit (such as the plumber, the doctor, the store delivery person, the relatives - both young and old, etc.).

Help, please! Any ideas?

Thanks so much.