Great feedback and thanks you for caring and keeping me in your thoughts and prayers. I am a person who wants to know exactly what to expect ahead of time so I appreciate the open and honest responses, no sugar coating.
I am all set with a very comfortable recliner to sleep on when I get home. I defintely will get a laughing/coughing pillow ready to go. Good idea for the neck pillow so I dont have the head drooping thing when I am sleeping upright.
I just wanted to thank you all and this site for helping me to vent and understand how things happen in the real world. I will contunue to pray for all of you collectively and look forward when the pain subsides to tell you how everything went.
Thanls again!
If anyone is interested I have setup a site at the hospital I am going to that my wife will be updating.
https://www.carepages.com/carepages/DanielJVallejo
Feel free to login if you are interested!