Hello, and Welcome to NT
You and your friend have some problems, huh. Well, join the crowd.
Here are a few links to get you started.
headache:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum32.html
Occipital Neuralgia and..
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum105.html
general health conditions and rare disorders:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum2.html
If you need help getting around, just ask.