UGH! I can't tell you how many things like this have happened to me, too. Do keep at it though - I mean, as much as you write anyway, why not?
I don't have that pm where I wrote that info, and the book I got it from is packed up someplace. But for now is can tell you this.... Look up Accentuate Writer's forum. They have a thread for paying and non paying markets. I get a lot of good leads there, and the people are really supportive.
My name there is rudy2.
Good luck!