Hi slross.

It sounds like your mother may have her own neuro issues that have gotten "lost" in the caregiver merry-go-round. I'd approach her about getting thoroughly checked out herself, before scheduling an "intervention" around drug diversion. As a hospice professional, I've found that when you confront people around drug diversion, your relationship with them is effectively over. So leave that part to a professional. If there is a social worker on your dad's case, he/she should be notified. Let your mom be furious at the social worker and ban her from the house, not you....

egad.....

good luck

gershonb