It's true, everyone differs. But DXed in 2001, full disability 2003, in a chair 2007. But there were 10 years before that I did not even seek DX for a slight non-life affecting dizzy. After DX I still could still do lots of stuff. But I was kind of prepared for what might occur. Had a walker ready chosen without pressure, a chair I could use when need arose and glad I did, mine (the good one) took longer than I'd care to be not-mobile. Don't dwell on things that may never happen (a million things never did happen to me that I read happen to others) but be like a girl scout - be prepared - or is that boy scouts? Be organized and prepared, it'll still throw you for a loop, but you'll have some things done. When I knew my stair climbing days were coming to an end, I went up in the attic to look around, take out and clean out some stuff. Many things may never happen,I had years of no DX and just some dizzy, enjoy your daughter, do anything the opportunity is given to do,live out loud, just do without dwelling. My MS is so different from others. But I try to be aware, without getting too hung-up on IFS and MAYBES.