I responded earlier today and realized I just mentioned your brother in responding to your prayer request. Of course, I will add his wife and his family as all of them need prayers to make it through this difficult time. I will pray for God to grant them the strength they need to work together to find solutions to the problems that are making life difficult. I will also pray that God will help them remember the things that brought them together in the first place and caused them to fall in love. I have gone through something similar and know how frustrating it is when you can't really DO anything to help except to "be there" by listening, praying and asking others to pray when you have permission. I will pray for you also that God will help you with this burden. The more we love someone, the more we hurt when they are in pain. May God provide you with what you need as you go through this difficult time.