Aftermath and BEMM,

In trying not to disparage one group I have ended up disparaging all, my appologizes. I really did not mean it as a criticism but more an illustration of the different standards of politeness. It is my understanding that in Japan it is considered rude to show your teeth when smiling. Imagine what they would think of we southerners showing however many teeth available at every opportunity.

My only point was, without any rules, where we are all free to do and say whatever we wish, it becomes very difficult for opposing opinions to be heard over the fray. It also makes it difficult for us to learn from each other.

Sorry if I offended.

{Politeness should never be confused with weakness}